You don’t need to ask permission from anyone to do what it is that you were put on this earth to do, but you can ask for support.
DURING THIS EPISODE
Transformation does not stop once you leave the room. That’s why James and I are sharing some of the transformations we witnessed at our first annual I Heart My Life Live.
We want to give you that behind the scenes experience of what actually happened at I Heart My Life Live and hope you take it and apply it to your life business to create your own transformation.
FINDING THE COURAGE TO RELEASE WHAT NO LONGER SERVS YOU
Dawn is someone who really inspired us because she got herself into alignment. One of the biggest transformations we talk about is having clarity around what’s next for you. Sometimes that means being brave enough to release the things that are no longer working.
Take a look at what’s serving you and what’s not. Ask yourself what you need to release in order to move towards that thing that you really want to create this year.
When you’re in alignment, you are unstoppable.
ASKING SUPPORT INSTEAD OF PERMISSION
A very brave woman stood up at the live event and talked about this movement that she’s creating to serve women around the world who have experienced postpartum depression. All of us in the room were so impressed by her and felt her heart for doing this work. She also shared that she felt like she needed to ask her husband for permission to have funding to move forward with this dream.
James did an incredible job at supporting her and helping her understand that it’s not about asking for permission, it’s about asking for support. One of the things that we see in our community and especially in rooms that are full of driven women is this indecision piece. We revert to this little girl’s mindset of asking for permission instead of granting ourselves permission and moving full speed ahead with what it is that we want to do.
There’s a difference between asking for permission and asking for support.
The important piece is that you give yourself permission to ask for support, but to go full in and believe that you can figure it out.
RAISING YOUR PRICES
What would you put into a service, package, or product that cost $250,000? This is something Marla Mattenson encouraged people to think about.
Money is your coach inviting you to go to the next level, inviting you to become that next level version of you. That means you transform your mindset. You get creative. You up your game. Step into your power. Become more confident.
That’s one of the most significant transformations that we shared from the stage at I Heart My Life Live. It goes back to really thinking about what it is that you actually desire.
THE REASONS YOU CAN DO SOMETHING
Our next transformation is all about seeing the reasons why you can do something, not why you can’t. So, we want to invite you to open up your eyes and look around and see everything that is possible for you.
All of our speakers have a story of transformation, and you do as well. And so it’s really important that you start to look at why you can do something. And frankly, if you have the desire to do something, that means your capability is right there alongside it. It’s not always going to be easy. And yes, there might be a learning curve, but that doesn’t mean that you can’t do it.
FEAR AROUND THE PROCESS
Most of us have fear around what’s to come.
One of the main four fears that we know from a study that was done worldwide is there’s this fear that we will be responsible for the actions that we take for our own ruin.
Do you really have a fear of a process, or is it that you don’t trust yourself enough to succeed?
The truth is, there is no perfect process. Go in alignment with where you want to go and stop waiting for the path to be laid out in front of you to be perfect. Just Move Forward.
EMILY and JAME’S TRANSFORMATIONS
I think my biggest transformation was reconfirming that you do have your own path. What I do as a coach is very similar to what a lot of people do, but I have my lane. When I’m running in my lane, then I’m my best self, and things work out.
My biggest transformation was that I’m capable of far more than I give myself credit.
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Emily Williams is a success coach, entrepreneur, and author with a seven-figure business who, at one point, couldn’t get a job at Starbucks.
After experiencing a quarter-life crisis, she moved from Ohio to London (where she knew no one!), and in 2014 launched her business, I Heart My Life. She made $442 in her first month—and then went on to hit six figures in six months before her 30th birthday. She grew it to seven figures in under 18 months.
Today, she works with female entrepreneurs all over the world, helping them bust through the obstacles that hold their dreams and goals hostage so they can free themselves to live the lives they want, build their own online business, and hit their money goals. She’s been featured in Money, Entrepreneur, Business Insider, Forbes, and Success Magazine.