My Conversation with Victoria Song: How to Bend Reality and Create Limitless Possibilities

At I Heart My Life, we believe that creating a life you love means expanding beyond your limits, and no one embodies that philosophy better than Victoria Song. In our recent podcast conversation, Victoria shared her groundbreaking approach to “bending reality”—helping us shift from contracted, limiting beliefs to an expansive mindset that opens the door to what we once thought was impossible.

Victoria began her career in venture capital but quickly realized that true success—whether in business, health, or relationships—requires more than just strategy. It involves rewiring the subconscious and embracing the expansive energy that leads to breakthroughs. As women who are constantly juggling, achieving, and striving, it’s easy to get caught up in old patterns of hustle and self-sacrifice. But, as our conversation revealed, there’s a more joyful way to create a life that feels aligned and limitless.

The Key to Expansion: From Contraction to Possibility

Victoria introduced us to the concept of recognizing when we’re in a contracted state. This is when we feel stuck, anxious, or overwhelmed, and it’s usually driven by fear or outdated beliefs we’ve picked up from childhood. How many of us have grown up with the idea that we need to struggle in order to succeed? That hustle is the only way forward?

She teaches that we can shift into an expansive state by focusing on joy, celebration, and presence. It’s not about constantly pushing harder; it’s about feeling more aligned with what lights us up. She explains that when you make joy and celebration your priority, everything else starts to flow—business opportunities, relationships, and yes, even financial success.

Bending Reality in Your Daily Life

You might be wondering, “How do I start bending reality today?” Victoria offered a simple yet powerful practice: asking yourself, “Do I feel contracted or expansive right now?” This awareness alone can help you shift your energy and realign with possibility. She shared a beautiful story from her own life about manifesting her dream home—an outcome that came from staying in that state of expansion, trusting that what’s meant for her would align perfectly.

The real magic happens when we realize that life isn’t about chasing the next milestone or grinding through challenges. Instead, it’s about showing up for each moment with an open heart and an expanded mind, allowing life to unfold in ways beyond our wildest dreams.

Joy Is the Key

One of my favorite parts of our conversation was when Victoria explained that the more fun she has, the more money she makes. It might sound counterintuitive in a world obsessed with productivity, but this is what bending reality is all about. It’s about flipping the script on everything we’ve been taught and instead leading with joy, passion, and alignment. When you make joy your compass, you start to see opportunities, connections, and breakthroughs that simply weren’t visible in a contracted state.

How to Start Bending Your Own Reality

If you’re ready to start bending reality and stepping into a life that feels expansive and full of possibility, be sure to listen to the full episode. Here are some key steps to listen for:

• Prioritize joy: Make time every day for what lights you up. It could be as simple as taking a walk, spending time with loved ones, or celebrating small wins.
• Celebrate often: Don’t wait for the big moments to celebrate. Celebrate everything, from completing a task to enjoying a meal you love. This creates a positive feedback loop of expansion.
• Shift your mindset: Whenever you feel stuck, ask yourself if you’re in a contracted state. What would it take to feel expansive again? Often, it’s as simple as choosing to see things differently.

Victoria’s philosophy aligns so beautifully with the mission of I Heart My Life—to help you create a life you truly love by embracing joy, possibility, and expansion.

Final Thoughts

Victoria’s wisdom on bending reality beautifully aligns with the work we do here at I Heart My Life. Her insights on shifting from contraction to expansion offer a pathway to creating a life full of joy and possibility. But to bend reality, you first need to understand what you truly desire.

That’s where my Dream Life Guide comes in—it’s designed to help you get clear on what you want and what brings you joy so you can start shaping the life you’re meant to live. Download it for free here.