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Pursuing Purpose and Self-Realization with Jean-François Lappas

My Conversation with Jean-François Lappas: Pursuing Purpose and Self-Realization

If you’ve ever felt stuck in a cycle of sleep, eat, work, repeat, and wondered if there’s more to life, the conversation I had recently on The I Heart My Life Show is for you. In my conversation with Jean-François Lappas, co-founder of Wabya, we explored what it means to break free from burnout, discover your true purpose, and pursue self-realization over self-improvement.

Jean-François shared his own journey of leaving a successful corporate career, battling burnout, and eventually co-founding Wabya, a company that aims to make coaching accessible to 1 billion people by 2033. He spoke openly about his transformation, the importance of pursuing personal goals, and how coaching can be a powerful tool to unlock fulfillment. His story serves as a reminder that sometimes, the path to genuine happiness requires us to listen to our own needs and take bold steps toward self-discovery.

Breaking Free from Burnout and Pursuing Purpose

Jean-François knows firsthand how burnout can feel like a dead end. After 14 years in the corporate world, he realized he was running on empty and felt disconnected from his own life. In the midst of the pandemic, he took a leap of faith and left his job, determined to find a deeper sense of purpose. During our conversation, he explained how this pivotal decision allowed him to reconnect with his values and redefine what success meant to him.

Jean-François emphasizes that fulfillment isn’t about reaching externally defined milestones; it’s about discovering and pursuing what truly matters to you. This shift in perspective led him to co-found Wabya, a platform that connects individuals with certified coaches to support their journey of self-realization.

The Power of Self-Realization Over Self-Improvement

One of the key themes in our conversation was the difference between self-improvement and self-realization. Jean-François believes that personal growth shouldn’t be about fixing perceived flaws but about uncovering who we really are and what we genuinely want in life. He sees coaching as a way for people to break free from societal expectations and start creating a life that aligns with their own values.

Through Wabya, Jean-François is helping others discover their unique purpose, identify their core values, and design a life that brings them joy and fulfillment. This is not about reaching an ideal version of oneself but about realizing the true self that already exists within.

How to Begin Your Journey of Self-Realization

If you’re feeling stuck or seeking a deeper sense of purpose, here are a few actionable steps inspired by my conversation with Jean-François:

  1. Listen to Your Intuition: Jean-François encourages you to pay attention to the signs of burnout and dissatisfaction. If something feels off, it’s worth exploring what might be missing in your life.
  2. Define Your Own Goals: Spend time identifying what truly matters to you. Forget about societal expectations and focus on setting goals that reflect your authentic desires.
  3. Seek Support Through Coaching: Whether through a structured program like Wabya or an individual coach, working with a professional can provide invaluable insights and accountability as you discover your purpose.
  4. Align with Your Core Values: Reflect on your personal values and use them as a guide to shape your life decisions. Making choices that align with your values is key to experiencing long-term fulfillment.

Final Thoughts

Jean-François Lappas’s journey shows us that true fulfillment comes from within. By focusing on self-realization instead of self-improvement, we can find purpose and live a life aligned with our values. If you’re ready to explore what’s possible and take the next step toward a life you truly love, I invite you to download my Dream Life Guide. It’s designed to help you uncover your desires and make meaningful progress toward your goals. Download it for free here.

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