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Yup, still in Italy! We are now in a town called Ravello. It’s one I’ve never visited before, so I cannot wait!

I’m also so excited because we’re meeting our friends for a week in a beautiful hotel that truly looks like a pink palace.

What could be better, right?!

Just wanted to check in with you to talk about a little something that’s going to be a GAME-CHANGER for you…

Trust me.

It’s called The Law of Polarity.

According to the Law of Polarity, you can’t have a back without a front or a yes without a no or broke without wealth being around the corner.

I know you like that last one so that’s what I want to talk about today…

Here’s what the Law of Polarity is according to

“According to the Law of Polarity, everything is dual—so things that appear to be opposites are actually two inseparable parts of the same thing. Think of hot and cold, for example — although they’re opposites, they’re actually on the same continuum and you cannot have one without the potential for the other.”

So let’s break this down even more…

When it comes to your desires, wealth and the life you want to create there may have been a period of time where you couldn’t afford to take a trip (maybe that time is right now) but if you can’t do something, that means you HAVE the potential to do something at the same time.

I hope that makes sense…

The way I also think about this is in terms of human potential in general because sometimes it’s easier to see possibility in others before we see it in ourselves.

Let’s take flying first class for example.

When you board a plane and walk down the aisle to your Economy seat, you literally see people sitting in business class or first class. They are there, you can see them.

So even if you don’t believe an upgraded seat is possible for you yet, you can literally see that it IS possible for other humans.

That’s what I did for my dreams in the beginning…

Before I ever stayed in a hotel like this, I knew they existed and were often fully booked so someone must be staying in them. Someone must be eating from the mini bar. Someone must be on the cover of Forbes Magazine.

I focused on the fact that even though some of my desires weren’t my CURRENT reality, there were people out there doing them all the time so the potential was there for humans in general.

And I knew I was human (ha!) so I finally realized the potential was there for me too.

(That’s where my “why not me” philosophy comes from.)

Does that make sense?

I hope this is sinking in for you, Lovely.

What I’m saying is that even if you don’t have everything you desire today, it can be right around the corner. Because you can not have something, without having it being an option too.

Want to know the most important part of this process?

Once you believe it’s possible for you, you’ll take the action to get there.

(Remember, I’m not a sit on the mountain top and wish it into reality sorta gal.)

So tell, me Lovely, what do you currently not possess that you desire? (Remember, it’s possible.)

Write down five things right now…

Now write down a simple action you could take to get those five things (they may be different steps).

Final challenge? Start today!

I believe in you, Lovely. You’ve got this!

Remember to keep an eye out for a special free training I’ll be sending you this week.

See you soon!

P.S.- We’re going to be talking about the Universal Laws and creating massive wealth at our live event in NYC on October 6thClick here to get your tickets. Spots are limited. 

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