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3 Proven Practices to Improve Your Romantic Relationship and Strengthen Your Connection

In my Desires Intensive, nearly all of my clients come to the session wanting to improve their romantic relationships. They want more quality time, more connection, more sex. They feel like they’re currently on autopilot with their spouse; basically high-fiving in the hallway versus having that deep connection or passion that they used to experience.  And […]

Heartfelt Picks: 9 Valentine’s Day Gifts for Men

Valentine’s Day is just around the corner, and if you’re like us, you’re on the lookout for that Valentine’s gift for men to make your guy’s heart skip a beat. Well, fear not! I’ve curated a list of thoughtful Valentine’s Day gifts for men that will help make shopping a little easier.  Here’s our pick […]

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6 Tips for a Healthy Marriage

6 Tips for a Healthy Marriage Today, we wanted to share our top tips for a healthy marriage. With the New Year upon us, many people (whether in a relationship or not) have #relationshipgoals on their mind. While there is no one-size-fits-all formula for a successful marriage, there are certain tips and principles that can […]

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Why Are You Shying Away From Living the Life You Deeply Desire?

For most things in my life, I seek to really understand different perspectives and points of view and try to listen more than I speak, but I’ve come to realize there is an area in life and our culture that I cannot remain silent on any longer.  I don’t get on a soapbox often, but […]

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Is Overthinking Sabotaging Your Love Life? Here’s How to Fix It

I could see the worry. She was anxious when I arrived. Her mind was clearly distracted and eaten up with all the ways that things might implode in her new relationship. She told me that the whole week he’d been distracted and short in his responses. She was preparing for him to end things. We […]

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Advice for Coping with Unexpected Tragedy

Have you experienced grief recently? Or maybe you have a fear of grief and wonder how you’d handle it should you be met with it in the future? I recently sat down with my lovely team member Evelyn for an extremely important conversation about grief — a topic that I don’t think people spend enough […]

How to shift your mindset away from guilt and live a life you love

When’s the last time you talked openly about guilt and how it impacted your life? Maybe (like me) you’ve been conditioned to accept guilt by being taught to put others before yourself. I get it, but it should never come at the cost of living your life. Because that’s just it, it’s your life. Lately, I’ve had A LOT […]

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My secret to a strong marriage will surprise you…

James and I just celebrated our eight year wedding anniversary ?. I’m sure that if you’re anything like me, you’re always curious to know what truly makes a marriage work. Not work, but thrive. Although I haven’t yet made it to the big anniversaries, I have learned a thing or two and what I’m about to […]

That Time I “Retired” My Husband So He Could Pursue His Dreams

Yesterday James and I were reminded of what we were doing 5 years ago this weekend… Yup, that’s us in Venice, Italy. It almost feels like a completely different lifetime, and I’m so grateful that we have spent so much time in Italy over the years seeing that it’s pretty much off-limits right now. This […]

I Feel Guilty Making More Money Than Him…

One of my biggest missions in life is supporting women in understanding what’s really possible (Hint: it’s ANYTHING!), and creating the mindset that helps them achieve their wildest dreams. That includes you Lovely. A big part of the mission is to support women like you in making more money and increasing your capacity for wealth. […]

What my parents’ visit (7 years later) means to me…

My parents are in London this week visiting James and me. (Make sure you follow my Instagram stories for the behind the scenes as we travel to the Cotswolds – I’m on iheartmylifenow.) I can’t help but reflect on the difference a few years makes (well, 7 to be exact). I knew I had to share this […]

It Had To Be Said, So I’m Saying It

Hi Lovely, Last week I spent a day filming new IHML Show episodes. One of the special guests was Bob Heilig. He’s a Facebook LIVE expert and the Founder of Your Virtual Upline, a training resource for the new wave of network marketers. We met through Brendon Burchard’s Mastermind last year, and he’s been such […]

What I’ve Learned From Working With My Husband

Hi Lovely, Happy Monday! With Valentine’s Day just a few days away, I wanted to share some insight into working with your partner. (I know you may not be married or in a heterosexual relationship, but for the purposes of this email, I’m sharing my takeaways from my own marriage with James so I’ll be […]

NYC + 151,000 Deaths

Last week I spent several days in NYC learning and networking as part of a publicity mastermind. Through this group, I had the opportunity to meet so many incredible people, including the oh-so-wise soul, Geneen Roth. Geneen was a 4x guest on The Oprah Winfrey Show plus she was recently featured on Super Soul Sunday! […]

Top 5 Takeaways From My Retreat With My Relationship Coach…

I’m writing this as I’m flying back from gorgeous St. Tropez, and I’m feeling on top of the world. My theme song right now is Glorious by Macklemore. #cheesy, I know, but it’s true. If you haven’t heard it, click below and then come back to this email… Click to watch Why am I feeling […]

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I’m Emily. I had a Tumblr blog back in the day, but this cooler. 

Over a decade ago, I found myself in a quarter-life crisis—broke, unfulfilled, and wondering when life was finally going to “get good.” What changed everything was learning how to follow my desires, shift my mindset, and rewrite the beliefs that were keeping me stuck. Today, I’ve built a multi–seven-figure brand, written a bestselling book, and coached thousands of women around the world to do the same.

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